Dating tests boys
Being the “seller” means you value the approval of others over your own opinion of yourself.
After finishing answering the questions, the participants are supposed to sit and look into one another’s eyes for four minutes. Men have given up on their manhood and their own happiness for what they perceive to be the greater good of their girlfriend or wife’s happiness.
Both of these dynamics typically lead to low interest responses in women. Incongruence is a big issue for most men, but it is especially true for Nice Guys and inexperienced daters.
You caught one another’s eyes, and then you looked a second time.
When you were introduced, your palms were sweaty and you hoped no one noticed the increased perspiration under your arms.
Your heart began to race as an exhilarating but unfamiliar feeling swept over you.